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STAIRWAY TO HEAVEN @ PART 5

As the 50,000 year old Aborigine culture teaches, it is critically important in all couplehoods for the partners:

“To always speak the truth from behind their eyes,” to create and maintain the SHARED GOAL OF ALTRUISTIC EQUALITY.

We must rid ourselves of ALL the following psychopathic patterns that no longer serve ourselves and our committed relationship:

° ALOOF
purposely drawing away or refusing to talk, emotionally drains the partner to constantly ask: “did I do or say something wrong?"; or “can I help you?”

° VICTIM
closely paralleling the aloof drama, being “the poor me” causes one partner to try to help the other partner fix the perceived victimizing situation, that created the psychotic mental construct in the 1st place.

2 victims in a couplehood are mired in a Crazy Glue relationship based on FEAR.

They entropically "stick" together, because they feel it is comfortable to constantly share common misery.

° RESCUER
wanting to be the hero “knight in white armor saving the damsel in distress” or the Marie Curie Syndrome.

Driven by the ego, seeking the praise or gratification of the partner for making things okay, when usually there is no need to.

° VICTIMIZER
when rebuffed by “the poor me” or “victim”, the rescuer now becomes the victimizer because of not feeling worthy enough to help.

The vast majority of the world's people are not working on their
Self-Actualization.

Therefore, they are becoming slaves to the manipulated and weaponized brain murdering mainstream media distractions; as well as the purposely and insidiously controlled social approval platforms.

They are not able to take the necessary deep breaths and calm their minds before saying or doing something reactive that is hurtful.

Not that slapping or pushing the other person is correct, but linguistic atrocities cause massive emotional damage that can last a lifetime.

Everything in the universe is energy in motion, no matter how slow it is, even in a rock form.

When we are not in control of our mental capacities and emotions, we are vampirically constantly seeking energy from others, by psychotically believing that we do not have enough.

° APPROVAL
feeling insecure and wanting to be the "good boy" or the "good girl" by performing egotistic and narcissistic self-serving acts of kindness.

And/or showing how witty or cute we can be to get that dopamine kick of a “pat on the back”, an "attaboy", “thumbs up”, "Amen" and/or a “smiley face.”

On some occasions, very much like the rescuer syndrome.

° CONTROL
feeling empty and not worthy enough to let go and let God, the need for domination takes over our minds.

And we are not happy until we achieve it, no matter how dastardly or demonically we misbehave.

We sometimes spin so totally out of control, we feel the need to become the victimizer.

2 control freaks living together is similar to a non-stop WW3, because winning at all costs is their ultimate goal.

° SAFETY
the bottom-line mental root for both approval and control is the need to feel safe.

When we give up our minds, hearts and souls to The Lord, there is no need to go outside of ourselves looking for safety, because He is our eternal Rock of Gibraltar.

That opposites attract is an asinine myth!

Like-attracts-like, so choose to heal 100% and become the very best YOU.

Your powerful & pure energy vibration will magnetize the crystal-clear mirror image partner you can immensely grow with spiritually.

The most important commandment Christ Jesus gave us is:

"To love God and to love others".

Healthy relationships are so important that God didn't just suggest we treat others well.

He commanded it!














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